Philly for Bernie humbly asks everyone organizing as a member of this organization to abide by the following Guidelines for Participation and Communication.
PH4B offers these guidelines to support conversations grounded in respect and accountability; interactions guided by principles rather than personalities.
These Community Participation Guidelines cover our behavior as members of the Philly for Bernie Community, in Philly for Bernie-related forums, on mailing lists, web sites, at events, public meetings or in person-to-person Philly for Bernie-related correspondence.
The Community Participation Guidelines have three parts — a general section, an Inclusion and Diversity section, and an online section about how we hope to treat each other. Each is an important part of the community we’re building.
General Guidelines for Participation + Communication
- Be Curious and Open to Learning
- Listen and be open to hearing all points of view. Maintain an attitude of exploration and learning.
- Balance Advocacy and Inquiry
- Seek to learn and understand as much as you might want to persuade. Conversations are as much about listening as it is about talking.
- Show Respect and Suspend Judgment
- Setting judgments aside will enable you to learn from others and contribute to others experiencing being respected and appreciated.
- Do not feel like you have to re-say what someone has just said in your own words. Read more about it here.
- Seek Alignment rather than Agreement
- Alignment is shared intention, whereas agreement is having a shared belief or opinion.
- Be Purposeful and to the Point
- Notice if what you are conveying is or is not “on purpose” to the question, issue, or task at hand.
- Notice if you are making the same point more than once.
- Do your best to make your point quickly with honesty and depth.
- Own and Guide the Conversation or Process
- Take responsibility for the quality of your participation and the quality of the work conversations by noticing what’s happening and actively support getting yourself and others back “on purpose” when needed.
- Be Excellent to Each Other. This can be interpreted in many ways, but essentially asks that you try to think well of your comrades; have patience, defer to their best intentions, put yourself in their position. We’re all in this together and the best way to succeed is by working together.
- Share what’s important to you.
- Speak authentically; from your personal and heartfelt experience.
- Be considerate to others who are doing the same.
Inclusion and Diversity
- Philly for Bernie welcomes and encourages participation by everyone. It doesn’t matter how you identify yourself or how others perceive you: we welcome you. We welcome contributions from everyone as long as they interact constructively with our community, including, but not limited to people of varied age, culture, ethnicity, gender, gender-identity, language, race, sexual orientation, geographical location and religious views.
- Philly for Bernie-based activities should be inclusive and should support such diversity.
- Some Revolutionaries may identify with activities or organizations that do not support the same inclusion and diversity standards as Philly for Bernie. When this is the case:
- (a) support for exclusionary practices must not be carried into Philly for Bernie activities.
- (b) support for exclusionary practices in non-Philly for Bernie activities should not be expressed in Philly for Bernie spaces.
- (c) when if (a) and (b) are met, other Revolutionaries should treat this as a private matter, not an Philly for Bernie issue.
Raising Issues Related to Inclusion and Diversity
- If you believe you’re experiencing practices which don’t meet the Inclusion and Diversity policy, please contact Jackrabbit who has volunteered to help with conflict resolution – email@example.com.
- Intentional efforts to exclude people from Philly for Bernie activities are not acceptable and will be dealt with appropriately. It’s hard to imagine how one might unintentionally do this, but if this happens we will figure out how to make it not happen again. I suspect there will be some questions about when and if something moves from a private to a public matter, which we’ll have to sort out.
- Be respectful. We may not always agree, but disagreement is no excuse for poor manners. We will all experience some frustration now and then, but we don’t allow that frustration to turn into a personal attack. A community where people feel uncomfortable or threatened is not a productive one.
- Try to understand different perspectives. Our goal should not be to “win” every disagreement or argument. A more productive goal is to be open to ideas that make our own ideas better. “Winning” is when different perspectives make our work richer and stronger.
- Do not threaten violence.
- Empower others.
- Strive for excellence. Our products must be great and our communities must be healthy and vigorous. Being respectful does not mean papering over disagreements or accepting less than we can do.
- Don’t expect to agree with every decision.
Raising Issues Related To Interaction Style
- Inevitably conflicts will arise. Sometimes we’ll differ about style, about what’s respectful. Sometimes attempts at humor will backfire. One approach could be to try to make Philly for Bernie as strictly business-like and sterile in an attempt to avoid all issues. This doesn’t fit with Philly for Bernie. If we become sterile we’ll have lost part of our essence. A community is a set of relationships and encompasses more than the interactions strictly required to ship software.
- We are also likely to have some discussions about if and when criticism is respectful and when it’s not. We *must* be able to speak directly when we disagree and when we think we need to improve. We cannot sugar-coat hard truths. Doing so respectfully is hard, doing so when other don’t seem to be listening is harder, and hearing such comments when one is the recipient can be even harder still. We need to be honest and direct, as well as respectful. That takes work.
Here are some ways to handle conflicts:
Direct Conversation. If you are comfortable having a direct talk with the other person, this is a good way to start.
Conversation with Other Trusted Organizers. If you’re not comfortable having a direct conversation, identify one or more people you trust. It will be helpful to identify whether the conflict is because someone is flaming, or behaving in a troll like manner or just won’t listen? Has the person been expressing some frustration and is now escalating into an increasingly strident tone?
Dedicated Conflict Resolution. We will be establishing a group dedicated to conflict resolution. Until then please contact Jackrabbit at: info@Philly4bernie.org if you have questions or need help resolving conflicts.
EMAIL AND ONLINE COMMUNICATION
Here at Philly for Bernie (PH4B) we have some simple guidelines that have seemed to do us well in our collective online experience including email and Facebook:
- Please keep on the topic of getting Bernie Sanders elected.
- Please keep your comments relatively upbeat and do not resort to insulting your fellow Bernie fans or others in the greater Bernie Sanders communities.
- Differing opinions and viewpoints are great as long as expressed respectfully.
- Private matters should be addressed privately.
- Do not attack people you think are attacking Bernie. Bernie is a smart experienced politician who can and does defend himself quite well.
- We don’t do online bullying, harassment, excessive profanity, offensive comments, etc.
If you can follow these simple guidelines, online communications will remain a peaceful and respectful and productive.
As organizers you will be collecting information from folks who want to support Bernie.
- State clearly what the information is going to be used for.
- Do not share information with other organizations unless you have been explicit about that sharing when you collected the information.
- Do not hoard contact information from other group members you are working with.
We are a group that respects and champions democracy. If you are the owner of a social media property, please consider following the guidelines in this document and work with others in a cooperative and democratic way.
It is essential that individuals be held accountable to the principles and norms of the community they participate in. Without such checks on behavior a safe space for participants cannot be guaranteed, and the essential character of the group is eroded.
- Listen before speaking,
- Step up step back
- Unity of Purpose
- Equal access to power
- Self empowerment
- Active participation
- Commitment to resolving conflicts
Comments and feedback on these guidelines can be directed to firstname.lastname@example.org
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